Playing In A Band For The First Time | 14 Essential Tips

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Playing in a band can be an immensely enjoyable and rewarding pursuit. However, it’s certainly a different experience to playing alone. Here are 15 essential tips on playing in a band for the first time:

 

1. Understand There’s No Need To Be Nervous

Understandably, playing with other musicians and being part of a band can be a nerve-wracking experience. However, keep in mind that playing in a band is all about having fun in a creative and positive environment. Here are a couple of actionable pointers on overcoming nerves: 

  • Don’t expect too much from yourself: Expecting things to go completely flawlessly is simply unrealistic. In addition, keep in mind that every great musician you know had to start somewhere.
  • Warm up with a two-person jam: If you’ve never played with anyone else before, I’d recommend that you first arrange a jam session with just one other person. This can help build your confidence up before playing with a full band. 

 

2. Consider The Nature Of The Project

Before you show up for your first rehearsal, it’s worth considering the nature of the project you’re joining. If it’s a serious project that’s either earning or planning to earn an income, a more professional attitude will be required. However, an overly-professional attitude might be out of place if it’s more of an informal jam-type project.

 

Regardless of how serious the project is, a positive, warm and enthusiastic approach will never go amiss.

 

3. Minimize Distractions During Rehearsal

You’ll want to get the most out of each rehearsal by being both present and productive. Therefore, it’s important to minimize distractions. Minimizing distractions comes twofold:

  • Distractions in the rehearsal space: If you’re rehearsing in a member’s house, it’s all-too-easy to spend the entire time playing Xbox instead of actually rehearsing (trust me, I’ve done it).
  • Personal distractions: Turn your phone off whilst rehearsing to prevent unnecessary distractions. In addition, try to leave other aspects of your personal life at the door once you step into the rehearsal room.

4. Learn Material In Advance Of Each Rehearsal 

I can’t stress how important this is. Learning material in advance of each rehearsal is imperative for the following two reasons: 

  • It prevents time from being wasted: Keep in mind that rehearsal is for tightening up pre-learned material, not for learning material from scratch. It can be immensely frustrating when time gets wasted due to members being unprepared. 
  • It allows you to focus on the rest of the band: Playing in a band requires you to pay close attention to your fellow bandmates. This will be much easier to do if you’re already comfortable with the material.

 

5. Structure Your Rehearsals 

One of the most common issues I hear from bands is that their rehearsal time is unproductive. This is almost-always due to a lack of proper rehearsal structure. In order to maximize productivity in the rehearsal room, you’ll have to create a schedule and stick to it. Here’s an example schedule for a 2-hour band practice: 

  • Load in & set up gear (15 mins)
  • Warm up/jam (10 mins)
  • Rehearse setlist (45 mins)
  • Break + active discussion (10 mins)
  • Rehearse new material (30 mins)
  • Fill in practice journal & plan the next rehearsal (10 mins)
  • Tear down & pack up gear (10 mins)

 

Implementing an effective rehearsal schedule will not only boost your productivity, but also encourage everyone to take things seriously. 

 

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6. Accept & Embrace Mistakes

As previously mentioned, it’s unrealistic to expect a totally flawless performance. Additionally, keep in mind that the entire point of a rehearsal is to iron out mistakes and tighten things up. Accept the inevitability of mistakes and embrace them as a chance to learn and improve. In addition, don’t be afraid to ask your fellow bandmates for clarification over a tricky section. 

 

7. Focus On A Single Instrument Whilst Playing

Playing with a live band can be overwhelming at first. Not only will you have to focus on your own playing, but you’ll also have to keep track of what’s going on around you. My favorite way of overcoming this is to simply focus on a single instrument whilst playing. If you’re not the drummer, you’ll most-likely find it easiest to focus on the drums. If you are the drummer, you’ll probably find it easiest to focus on the bass.

 

8. Don’t ‘Noodle’ 

‘Noodling’ is something musicians often do without even realizing. However, noodling away whilst other members are either working out a part or holding active discussion can be immensely frustrating to your fellow bandmates. Try to refrain from playing your instrument when you aren’t required to. 

 

9. Play The Song, Not The Instrument 

When you’re rehearsing alone, it’s easy to direct all your focus to the instrument itself. Therefore, you’ll likely fill your parts with all kinds of extra licks and fills. However, an overly-busy part might take away from the rest of the arrangement whilst playing in a band. Make sure you always keep the song itself as the main priority and tailor your playing to the needs of the arrangement. This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t express yourself through your part, but allowing the song to take priority over anything else will vastly improve your overall musicianship. 

 

10. Make Sure Your Tone Sits Well In The Mix

This tip essentially follows on from the previous one. Whilst rehearsing alone, you’re much-more-likely to dial in a tone that sounds great by itself. When playing with a band, you’ll want to find a tone that sits well in the mix. Don’t assume that the same tone you use at home will be suitable in a band setting. 

 

If you’re playing in a band with multiple guitarists, it might take some trial-and-error to avoid drowning each other out. As a guide, the rhythm guitar should occupy the lower-midrange, whilst the lead guitar should occupy the upper-midrange.

 

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11. Use Ear Protection

Band rehearsal almost-always occurs at ear-splitting volume. As hearing damage can’t be reversed, it’s imperative that you protect your hearing. Whilst cheap foam earplugs can protect your hearing, they’ll likely muffle the sound so much that you won’t be able to properly hear the arrangement. I’d thoroughly recommend investing in a decent pair of ear protectors that don’t compromise on sound quality, such as the SureFire EP4’s on Amazon.

12. Provide & Receive Constructive Feedback 

I’m a huge advocate of holding open and active discussion during band rehearsal. Open and active discussion provides each member with the chance to provide feedback to others in a friendly and constructive manner.

 

If someone gives you constructive feedback, it’s important not to take it personally. Understand that it’s likely not a negative reflection on your playing, but simply a suggestion on how to best-leverage your part in the interests of the song. Furthermore, don’t be afraid to provide constructive feedback to another member. 

 

13. Don’t Be Disheartened If It Doesn’t Work Out 

Something you might not realize is that finding the right project often takes several tries. Once again, it’s important not to take it personally if it doesn’t work out. It doesn’t necessarily mean you aren’t cut out for playing in a band, but rather that you simply weren’t the right fit for that particular project. Furthermore, don’t be afraid to walk away if the project isn’t what you’re looking for. 

 

14. Have Fun!

This is arguably the most important tip of them all. Even if you’re looking to join a serious project, keep in mind that everyone’s ultimately there to have a good time. Playing in a band can and should be an immensely rewarding and enjoyable pursuit for everyone involved. 

 

 

 

 

 

I founded Indie Panda in mid-2018 to help independent musicians organically grow and develop their projects. I specialize in branding, identity, audience/industry engagement and project logistics.

I have a wealth of experience in both classical and popular music. After taking piano and violin lessons as a child, I went on to play first violin in philharmonic, symphonic and chamber orchestras throughout my adolescence. I began playing guitar and writing songs at the age of 13 and have played in a wide range of bands ever since. At the age of 18, my music received airplay for 30 consecutive days on BBC Radio, which led to an 'in-session' event where I performed live on the radio. I went on to earn a Music/Popular Music BA from the University of Liverpool, where I specialized in popular music performance.

I'm passionate about helping other artists realize the full potential of their talents and abilities through a strong work ethic, coherent project identity and a strong logistical foundation.

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